Are you paying enough attention and connecting with your partner that you’re experiencing it fully?' Like, to have your butthole touched by a doctor examining you is very different than a lover touching your butthole it’s the exact same touch, but the context really dictates the experience. 'The second thing is: Are you having the right context that arouses you? Sex is such a contextual thing. 'One is: Are you getting the tactile sensation or stimulation that you need in order for your unique brain and body to have an orgasm?' he says. But when it comes to pleasure, more is definitely more, and there are plenty of techniques to hack your way to more frequent and all-around better orgasms.īoosting the frequency and intensity of the male orgasm comes down to three factors, sex educator Kenneth Play says in Men's Health Best. But if there's one thing we can all agree on, it's that an orgasm represents the pleasurable peak between the build-up and release of sexual tension. Orgasms feel differently for everyone, and can happen in a variety of ways, from P-in-V intercourse to prostate massage to nipple play.
